IS It Love or is it NOT!?
So how does we define love?
- Is it a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
- Is it when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him/her because you know it would hurt his/her feelings?
Today my story is not about myself. It about someone who stood so close to me and share all my troubles and problem throughout my 10years of knowing him. Many people have so many different view of the word "LOVE" . To me, i feel that my love have blossom. I had a good girlfriend. Good days. Good life. Some might say "Wow, you are a lucky chap" . Well all i can say is "Thank you" .
Sometime when people say LOVE is a powerful word, do you believe? I don't at first but now i got to accept and believe .
Dear Friend,
We have been such a good brother and buddy for ten long years, in the past we used to share our problems and happiness together. But now, things have really change. You keep saying that you are very stress, vex , useless , helpless and sad. So you think that the rest of us are feeling happy seeing you in this state. Its not easy to maintain such a long friendship like we did, we are all trying to help you. Do you know how sad are we when we see that you are going to give up on us for a girl you only known for a few months. As a friend for 10 years:
-WE can't call you when you are with her.
-WE can't meet you only when she nod her head and agree to let you out.
So is this your so call "HAPPINESS?"
-Scold you by pointing fingers at you while infront of your family and friends.
-Ordering you to do things like she's the boss .
-When she called you, you are so afraid till you must immediately pick up the call.
-When she's in a foul mood, she can scold you whatever she like.
-You must do thing her way , her style.
So is this what you called "LOVE". I'm really wondering , what did she do to you to make you so afraid of her and let you give up on us. Why do we gather at late nights to talk to you about this issue? Some of us still need to work and we don't mind staying till 3 to 4am and waking up at 6am. WHY ? WHY? WHY? cuz we never ever given up hope on you. We want you to step up of the "hole" . But you just don't listen to us. When you say "Can you all give me a break". My heart sank. So this is how you treat us because of her? There's a line to everything and i really feel that she had cross that line. There's always a limit to everything, you keep saying" Tolerate than very fast over one la. Just give in to her can le. Let her scold , its ok" So you are telling me you are planning to let this goes on for years??? Do you know you are actually hurting alot of people around you. No matter where the rest of us go. When we meet out, we always discuss on how to help you? how to make you understand? Love isn't this way. Happiness doesn't sound this way either. Lastly, i would like to say. Although it may sound bad but i still have to say. LEAVE HER FOR GOOD. No matter how the road looks like after that, we will always be there for you. If you feel like crying, we will cry with you. No matter how many obstacles we need to bring you through. I can promise you that we will follow you till you see that shinning light. I really pray and wish that you will heed our advice. Please , its time to come back.
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either.
Best Regards
Eng Koon
Dear Ms Sweety Dear,
I just want to say, I MISS YOU!!!!!!!!!!
HELL YEAH!!! Just hope to see you soon!!!
A part of you has grown in me. And so you see, it's you and me together
forever and never apart, maybe in distance, but never in heart.
Yours dearest
MR ONG E K
``Life is only worth living once
you've found someone worth dying for ``
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